How do we deal with our problems

Rich or poor, young or old, we all have problems. And unless we deal with our problems, we can easily become unhappy. Worrying about our problems can affect how we do at school. It can also influence the way we behave with our families. So how do we deal with our problems? There are many ways. By learning to forget

Most of us have probably been angry with our friends, parents or teachers. Perhaps they said something you didn’t like, or you felt they were unfair. Sometimes, people can stay angry for years about a small problem. Time goes by, and good friendships may be lost.

When we are angry , however , we are usually the ones affected. Perhaps we have seen young children playing together. Sometimes they have disagreements and decided not to talk to each other. However, this usually does not last for long. This is an important lesson for us: we can solve a problem by learning to forget. By regarding problems as challenges

Many students often complain about school. They might feel they have too much work to do sometimes, or think the rules are too strict. We must learn how to change these “problems” into “challenges”. Education is an important part of our development . As young adults, it is our duty to try our best to deal with each challenge in our education with the help

of our teachers.

By thinking of something worse

By comparing yourself to other people , you will find your problems are not so terrible. Think about Stephen Hawking, for example, a very clever scientist, who regards his many physical problems as unimportant. He can’t walk or even speak, but he has become very famous and successful. We are probably quite healthy and smart. Let’s not worry about our problems. Let’s face the challenges instead.

我们如何处理我们的问题

无论贫穷还是富有，年轻还是年老，我们都会遇到问题。如果我们不处理我们的问题，我们会很容易变得不快乐。为我们的问题担心会影响我们在学校的表现。它也会影响我们与家人的相处方式。那么，我们如何处理我们的问题呢？有多种方式。 学会忘记

我们绝大多数人可能都生过朋友、父母或老师的气。或许他们说了一些你不喜欢的话，或者他们说了一些你不喜欢的话，或者你感到他们不公平。有时，人们可能因一件小事而生气好几年。随着时间的不断流失，美好的友谊也可能会失去。

然而，当我们生气的时候，我们通常是受影响的。我们可能见过孩子们一起玩。有时，他们也有分歧，并下决心相互不再说话了。然而，这种情况通常持续不了很长时间。这对我们来说是一个重要的教训：我们可以通过学会忘记来解决问题。

把问题看作是挑战

许多学生时常抱怨学校。他们可能觉得有时他们有太多的作业要做，或认为学校管理太严格。我们必须学会怎样把这些“问题”转化为“挑战”。教育是我们发展的一个组成部分。作为年轻人，在老师的帮助下，我们要尽我们的最大努力来处理好我们受教育中的每一个挑战，这是我们的职责。 想想更糟糕的事情

通过把自己与别人比较，你将会发现你的问题并不那么可怕。例如，想想史蒂芬.霍金--- 一位非常聪明的科学家，他把自己的一些身体方面的不便看得并不重要。他不能走路，甚至不能说话，但他功成名就。我们可能很健康、很聪明。我们不要担心我们的问题。相反，让我们面对挑战吧。